I think Oatmeal's post summed this all up almost perfectly.
"You can take RTV etiquette too far too. Waiting for people to finish runs is the polite thing to do, yeah, but it's not a law or something like that. And politeness has it's limits, you don't have to wait for a guy to finish a two hour long run on an easy map if the server is full of other players who want to change maps.
But it's also not cool to tell other players that they have RTV just because you personally want a different map.
Personally I think this entire discussion is much drama about nothing."
Also thank you Flux for your post, I appreciate your openness and you seem like a level-headed guy. I'm impressed by your ability to see both sides, actually, because I think that's important for anybody, with any issue. I apologize for misjudging you on that day based on your chat. Sorry this became a "thing". Sorry I flipped after honestly like 15 minutes - it felt like longer at the time. Shoutouts to the guy who made it a thread - the internet loves drama, doesn't it.
Hope I continue to see you on Tempus. This thread shouldn't have to go much further. Coincidentally I ran into vexon and some dudes on alle's stream today and I think we're all good here guys, nobody's unreasonable and everybody is basically on the same side. Again, people can add me if they have more to discuss. Peace.